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Question: Dear Neale, My kids attend a fancy private school and the tradition is for the parents to get the kids really expensive toys for birthdays. I think it is wrong, but don’t want to appear cheap. What do I do? Signed, Cheap Mom
Answer: Dear Cheap Mom, BTW, you are not cheap, you are right. Expensive gifts like that send the wrong message.